Lighting Up in the Morning

August 2, 2011

in Contemplation

One of the most sexy things is the idea of a woman lighting up a cigarette almost immediately upon waking.

She *needs* a cigarette so badly that she feels she can’t face the day, or even get up out of bed without filling her lungs with smoke and allowing the calming nicotine to wash over her still sleepy head.

I imagine lying in bed, and being woken up by the click of a lighter and the smell of fresh smoke.


A pregnant girl lights up first thing in the morning on the BBC show Misbehaving Mums To Be

Smoking first thing in the morning is a sign of true addiction and also signifies the start of nicotine metabolism….

By ‘metabolism” I mean that the body takes around 45 minutes to reduce the level of nicotine in the bloodstream by 50%. Smokers are always feeling the effects of nicotine exiting the body and spend their entire lives ensuring the level of nicotine in their blood is kept to acceptable levels. By having a cigarette first thing in the morning nicotine levels are raised quickly and the subsequent fall in nicotine levels will become more noticeable over the next few hours…leading to more cigarette breaks.

I fantasise about going away on a beautiful holiday with my smoking girlfriend. At check-in to the hotel they confirm that we have a ‘smoking’ room.

She places her cigarettes on the bedside table. Ready for when she *needs* them in the morning.

She lights up one, but quickly needs to move to cigarette number 2, so she can think straight.

Her thoughts gathered she can now begin to enjoy the day, but now her need for nicotine is re-confirmed it will only be a matter or time before nicotine levels begin to fall, and fall quickly.

These pictures are screencaptures from  Misbehaving Mums to Be. For the full set become a Flamingo Friend



Pete August 2, 2011 at 7:59 am

I quote: “I imagine lying in bed, and being woken up by the click of a lighter and the smell of fresh smoke.”

I think that would be extremely erotic indeed. A clicking lighter is one of my biggest turn-ons and then the smell of fresh smoke, from a woman I loved, would be overwhelming. What a way to start the day! Bliss!

CC55 August 3, 2011 at 3:19 am

Couldn’t agree more. A good old school light up with a match works for me too.

Pete August 3, 2011 at 7:41 am

…which leads us nicely into a discussion about light-up techniques! A match would be nice for variety. The old adage: “Variety is the spice of life.” seems to apply. However, it’s the Bic-type lighter that my ears are most attune to hearing.

I like the way you wrote “good old school light up with a match”; it brings back to me the naughty thoughts I had when at school about “bad” girls lighting up behind the bicycle sheds.

CC55 August 3, 2011 at 10:36 pm

My high school actually had a designated smoking area for students, which was a rare privilege back in the day. It is still difficult to fathom how rewarding it was to detour through that area even if one ran the risk of being late to the next class. Dozens of girls power dragging in an unorchestrated, but nonetheless harmonic symphony! Those times passed much too quickly.

Pete August 4, 2011 at 7:54 am

“Dozens of girls power dragging in an unorchestrated, but nonetheless harmonic symphony!”

What a treat for you to be looking forward to each day and what happy schooldays you must have had! If I had been at your school, my teenage hormones would have gone cRaZZy!

Flamingo August 4, 2011 at 7:44 pm

Sounds amazing. I’ve seen similar sights outside the school gates back when I was school.

One of my favourite memories was watching a group of girls pass around a single cigarette…a few weeks later they all had their own cigarettes.

One of the girls got out of school one day and turned to her friend and said: “I actually really need one” -like she was surprised by the first admittance of her own addiction.


Flamingo August 4, 2011 at 7:42 pm

Bic lighters are super sexy, because they are so ‘common’ and ‘normal’. Not really a fan of metal lighters as they seem ‘special’ or heavy-duty/unfeminine.

Interesting how much thought goes into our fetish :)

Pete August 4, 2011 at 8:57 pm

I agree with you about non-Bic type lighters, Flamingo. There is however a delightful exception to that general rule that I experienced.

An ex girlfriend of mine (who ordinarily used a Bic and the manufacturer’s sexy gold pack), used a silver-plated case and a matching silver-plated lighter on the occasion of her mother’s 50th birthday dinner, that she had organised.

The case/lighter set was very feminine indeed and a nice one-off. She wore an elegant silver-coloured dress and looked wonderful when she did a light-up. In fact it wasn’t wonderful, it was some superlative beyond wonderful!

But I was glad to see the old Bic and the gold pack, back in action the next day!

CC55 August 5, 2011 at 10:35 pm

Generally speaking, I concur. But every so often one will encounter a gal who can cock back the metal lighter cover, ignite the lighter, light up, and then snap the cover back into place, all with one hand and in one fluid motion. When refined to this level, it’s an art form.

Flamingo August 4, 2011 at 7:41 pm

Matches, to me are less sexy. I associate matches with infrequent smokers. A lighter says: “I smoke enough to regularly a lighter with me at all times”.

vin August 4, 2011 at 8:30 pm

yeah but, i absolutely melt when a woman lights with a match and then blows out the match with her exhale stream so i while i agree with you, i prefer matches

Flamingo August 4, 2011 at 7:40 pm

With any luck it will be my reality soon enough.

Richard Kohler August 2, 2011 at 4:41 pm

The photos and the stories behind them are great!

Flamingo August 4, 2011 at 7:45 pm

Thanks Richard, I’ll be sharing the full pictures I have with my ‘Flamingo Friends’ -see box on the right to sign up.

stonewall August 2, 2011 at 9:39 pm

Here’s a weird story that I just thought about after reading this. I was at a friends house in the mid ’90s. I was there for a day or two to catch up before going back to college. We stayed up pretty late…I’d say about 1 AM when his mom came home unexpectedly. She was supposed to be in Cali and I’m guessing came home early. She was a blonde train wreck that chain smoked until 4 AM in the living room. Well I crashed in the living room and she kept me up 3 hours chain smoking and making discriminate noise. I put a sheet over my head in hopes of filtering out the smoke. I hated it!

Not much to do with your post, but it did remind me of that event. A true sign of an addicted women is literally lighting up while in the sack. Thanks for the pics!!

Flamingo August 4, 2011 at 7:47 pm

I remember hating the smell of smoke as a child too. There was once a waitress smoking on her break in a cafe …she noticed me trying to move away from my seat as the smoke was going near me.

She said: “you don’t like the smell of my cigarette do you?” I was so embarrassed but relieved when she moved.

My fetish would not arrive until much much later.

Loved your story about the super addicted chain smoker :)

Pete August 4, 2011 at 10:54 pm

I understand this, Flamingo! Isn’t it wonderful how a developing smoking fetish changes one’s sense of smell, whereby that which once was filthy and disgusting becomes the sweet perfume that dreams are made of!

Flamingo August 22, 2011 at 10:13 pm

So true, it’s weird how our brain works.

Mike August 14, 2011 at 8:09 pm

Wow, these pics are AMAZING!! I looked for this show on BBC America and YouTube but they don’t seem to have it. I can’t wait to see the full set!!!

The fact that she needs her nicotine so badly before she even gets out of bed (and while pregnant!) is the sexiest part — aside from the fact that she’s a hottie!!

CC55 August 15, 2011 at 10:43 pm

The pregnancy is an extra turn on for me too. This aspect of The Fetish has always conflicted me. Nevertheless, I hope I have the opportunity to view the BBC program sometime as the picture preview totally blew my mind.

Flamingo August 22, 2011 at 10:17 pm

She was such an addicted smoker -so so hot.

Pete August 16, 2011 at 6:26 am

She definitely is a hottie. The fact that this beautiful girl is so in love with her delicious nicotine-laden cigarettes, that she needs to smoke as soon as she wakes up and also while she’s pregnant is to me too a big turn-on. She just looks so sexy, so beautiful lighting up in the first picture. Lucky guy who has her!

(These thoughts of mine are at completely at odds with my own deep wish that no girl would ever want to start smoking, least of all continue through pregnancy!)

Flamingo August 22, 2011 at 10:17 pm

In the show she actually quit smoking…but once she had her baby she ended up starting again!!!

Awesome stuff. (and yes I’m at odds too because it’s kind of sad she worked so hard to quit and then fell back into addiction).

Flamingo August 22, 2011 at 10:16 pm

It was an amazing programme.
There’s even video on Smoking Fetish Kingdom if you search for “misbehaving mums to be”
Some screenshots if you are logged into the SFK site:

Don’t worry if you’re not -I’ll be sending shots and screen captures to Flamingo Friends in the coming days -just make sure you’ve signed up:

Pete August 22, 2011 at 10:48 pm

The first pic (Time 00:02:38) in the third row of the first link is a very sexy one in my opinion. The girl, dressed in olive green, is outside her house, lighting up her cork-tipped cigarette. The glow of her lighter illuminates her cupped hand and the daylight illuminates her hair. She looks so beautiful with her cigarette between her lips.

I think she really needs the rich tobacco smoke that she’s about to enjoy so much, and it’s probable that all she’s thinking about, at the time of the photograph, is the nicotine hit she’s going to experience so soon. Wonderful!

jimy hero November 8, 2011 at 11:00 pm

Hi, smoker ladies. the best my interests is to have relationship with a hot smoker is great for me.

ECD November 29, 2011 at 12:55 am

I can’t think of anything that would be more thrilling than feeling my girl stir awake beside me and click her cigarette to life in the darkness of our bedroom. I would embrace her from behind, kiss her sweet-scented hair and feel her firm breasts rise and fall as she replenished her depleted nicotine levels.

Pete November 30, 2011 at 10:00 am

That’s a beautiful thought, that the rising and falling of the breasts as a girl intensely enjoys her first cigarette of the day, and the sweet exhaled smoke that’s delivered such pleasure to her through the nicotine it carried all become a wonderful part of the early morning tender kissing, caressing and lovemaking between her and her man. That’s something marvellous beyond all else.

Brother Bri February 12, 2012 at 11:36 pm

You and I think so alike on this smoking thing – i just love seeing any woman “hitting home” with long-drags sucking-harmful fumes-in like they’re to die for…EVEN girls who I think are “not” so pretty on the looks scale–they look so pretty (like a sex object that needs to be dug into) if they take cheek-hallowing drags and blow out out the smoke like a true pro!

I use to hang out at the airport, and more often now the Mall of America, to see some pretty serious suckage. It pays to wait around to see some deep inhaling going on, every here and there of course, in the most innocent of people. The more it looks like it’s controlling their lives, but they really really want to quit…have tried…and can’t help it, the better no doubt!

I’ve always liked smokers who you can tell have been smoking for a long time, what it does to their looks is it makes them look more mature. These are the true pros at smoking–fast nicotine metabolizers–they need their smokes. They probably smoke in bed more often too, I often “like” to think–whenever and wherever possible. It’s always the right time! Just putting my face on their upper chest, feeling them and all, as their suckin’ down one like there is no tomorrow would be a dream come true!!

Problem is all this thinking without any “real talking” with them, makes me feel like I’m a “a weird guy” if I’m just sitting around, as if I’m waiting around to check them out. I try to look so unsuspecting, but I fear I’m a being a creep. I use to not have this problem and enjoy the fetish so very much, but now I’m growing ever so self-conscious about it that it’s like heaven to be able to check out some smokers on here…where I don’t have to worry about being so insecure. Of course, this avenue turns into a habit that’s just as bad, maybe worse because I’m chickening out from really ever meeting a smoker and getting to talking with them. …Occasionally, that’s happened in my past, but then the more talking I do with them, the more my fetish goes away–and I truly enjoy just socializing with them…as if they didn’t even smoke. Of course, when it’s quiet at night, and I’m alone (or something like that during the day) I can think about them as the perfect sex objects who make my mouth water like crazy because they’re smokers.

Well that’s a little about me. Sounding familiar at all??? Sometimes, I wonder if this whole thing has turned me into even more of a loser in life??? Maybe this was (is) the devil’s plan with me, but then I try to justify the fetish as if it’s not nearly as big of a deal as what people go after in a normal porn addiction. That stuff is just gross! Of course, they’d say the same about my preferences. Who is really more healthy–neither of us. As long as it eventually catches up with us, we’re paying the same price in the long run. We’re REALLY the dirt. We’ve got nothing better to do with our lives.

Of course, I try to deny all of this. The smoking fetish is so strong too, that it makes me not care what I look like to myself…truth is, I really do. I just can’t help the way I am wired. Maybe I’m unique, maybe it’s for a reason. Maybe I’m destined to meet up with a hard core smoker some day that would make my life that much more of a dream come true! Right now it seems like a curse. Keeps me from maturing socially like the man I could have been, well maybe not. Who really knows? It sure has caused unnecessary anxiety like any addiction. Then I have to temporarily cure it, by putting an end to it. After that, I don’t want anything. Afterwards, now more than ever, I always feel like I’ve blown it once again!

> I wish I could just where a shirt that says…well I don’t know what it would say??? It would be a statement that would “much more” easily land me a smoker when I’m out and about. I guess that’s one of the things you’re trying to do with this website if it “could” work out that way??? Best of luck! Some get scared away, maybe the right one will come!

Call me what you will, or Call me honest! At least I’m willing to admit things. We all have a darkside, I must confess. People say I’m not all that different, really. I just have a smoking fetish, that’s all. I’m not hurting anyone outside myself.

No need to get descriptive unless, well, you’ve never really been able to describe it in words to a person you’ll never meet. Wish I could meet you though! Then we’d both go out hunting “together”. Might work better! You know what I mean.

Over and Out,
Brother Bri

Flamingo February 16, 2012 at 12:56 am

Amazing comment. I’ll come back to this with a more detailed response but for now, thank you!

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